You've been focused on where you're going, which is smart, but today it's time to get back to the present and start living in the moment. Keeping your gaze fixed so far into the future has created some distance between you and someone who cares a lot about you. It's time to get back in touch with them. So through this day slowly, and take in the world around you. Don't just think about tomorrow, or you will totally miss out on today.
There has been one too many misunderstandings going on in your life lately, and it could be holding you back from getting closer to someone. You can either get face-to-face with the person who is confusing you and finally get to the bottom of things, or you can move on to a different set of social partners for a while. Keep in mind that there is nothing wrong with taking a break from people who are rubbing you the wrong way.
Your modesty isn't going to do you any good, so ditch it today and step into the spotlight! Get yourself noticed and you'll inject your mood with brightness and sass. If you've been feeling blue, today is the perfect time to turn that mood around. All you need to do is make contact with that cutie and they'll be falling all over themselves to get to know you. You are projecting an irresistible energy and you need to learn how to start wielding it more effectively.
Your bank statement may not be as healthy as it used to be, but that doesn't mean you can't be as happy as you used to be! You need to stop letting money control your mood and start realizing that you are so lucky in many respects. To help you get back into a sunnier mood, why not call up some friends and reconnect? Shoot the breeze. Have some laughs. You don't have to spend money to have a wonderful time.
The best way to approach a problem today is education. Teach yourself by researching every aspect of the forces and people around you. When you know what motivates them, you'll know how to motivate them, and the power will be in your hands. Interestingly enough, the reverse is also true. The more they know about your motivations, the more they can influence you. You get to decide whether or not you want to keep the playing field level, so be as open as you want.
The many layers of your personality make you a richer, more evolved person, but each layer isn't getting the amount of attention it deserves. It's time to reorganize the elements of yourself and bring some of the aspects that are deep beneath the surface up to the top of the pile. Let the world see the part of yourself that you never get to reveal. Take your biggest insecurities and let them all hang out. Be proud of your imperfections.
A huge wave of creativity hits you today. This could be the beginning of a very productive period, so get cracking early in the day. Concentrate on output. Quantity is more important and quality right now. Resist the temptation to edit yourself, because the nuttier the idea, the more likely it will spawn another, more doable plan. A family member may have a request you don't want to fulfill, but is this a battle you really want to fight? Give them what they need.
When was the last time you had some old-fashioned fun? It's time to work hard at having a good time in your life, and yes, it does take work! Do whatever it takes to get in a few belly laughs today. Watch a funny movie, read a funny blog, or call up your funniest friend. The bottom line is that you need to stop taking life so seriously. And poking fun at some of the problems you're having is a good place to start.
This isn't the best day to try to push a relationship to a deeper level. You know something they don't know, but if you use this secret to connect with someone, you'll be sorry. Not only is it dishonest, but it's shortsighted, too. If you want to get closer to someone, you have to be true to who you are and honest about what you want. Don't use information to make a good impression on someone. Just be yourself. That is going to be more than enough.
Something big is coming, and it might come before you're completely ready for it! Preparation is the big theme for you today, and you'd be wise to double-check your finances. Look for opportunities to travel. Do you have all your shots? Is your passport valid? There are clues regarding all things romantic, and by the end of the day you'll probably have enough information to make an educated guess. Things are going to start getting exciting!
Socially, you might not be the one making all the plans and driving all the action right now, but you are definitely the person everyone wants to know! You've got the sass, the energy, and the brilliance to carry on unique conversations with people from all walks of life, and your ability to listen to what people say is much appreciated. Your intense popularity will remind you how valuable you are to other people and leave you smiling all day long.
Pinning all of your hopes on one person isn't a wise idea right now, so try not to be unrealistic about your expectations. This person might be as awesome as you think, but they aren't capable of delivering what you want, and they aren't comfortable with you thinking that they are. Give them space and leave them alone today, because any undue pressure you put on them will only make them tense and distracted. Things are working just fine as they are, so relax.
Published in Volume 75, Number 11 of The Uniter (November 26, 2020)