Valentine’s Day is just around the corner and with it comes the challenging task of buying the perfect gift. It’s tough to be original when all we see in stores are endless heart-shaped boxes of chocolates and useless stuffed teddy bears. Whether you are in a long-term relationship, in the early stages of dating or just smitten for someone special, these suggestions take a different, fashionable approach to your Valentine’s Day woes.

Jewelry, sweet treats and flowers seem to be the staple when it comes to Valentine’s Day for the ladies, but they become meaningless over time. The key is to change it up and make these items more interesting.

Now don’t get me wrong, diamonds are a girl’s best friend, but costume jewelry is another non-traditional jewelry option. It’s all about bold, exotic pieces that you can mix and match and transition through spring.

The Forks Market offers a great selection of unique pieces of jewelry which come in a variety of styles, such as tribal, modern and vintage. Metal jewelry is also available and makes a great gift for men. Osborne Village, the Exchange District and the Winnipeg Art Gallery gift shop are other places to get a one-of-a-kind piece she will truly appreciate.

I can’t deny chocolates being a great gift for almost any occasion, but personalizing sweet treats can make it more special. Incorporate their favourite candies in a gift pack from places like Sugar Mountain or Bulk Barn. Instead of candy hearts, write your own messages on homemade cookies.

Gifts for men can be difficult and depending on their style, you can go casual, sporty or formal. Try to steer clear of purchasing cologne (unless they need it), since it’s on the cliché side of men’s Valentine’s Day gifts.

Tech-friendly gifts, such as ties by Thomas Pink, which hold your iPod on the inside, are definitely an original. Cuff links are a small yet thoughtful gift that can up the ante on a regular dress shirt. A coffee table book on architecture or travel is great for art lovers. Electronics and sporty gadgets are a great idea, but you may want to check in before you purchase an iPad.

Instead of material goods, why not go out and enjoy outdoor activities, such as a day of ice skating or a walk in the park? After all, isn’t this day about spending time with the person you care about? You can also take photo booth pictures or check out a local art exhibit or concert. Also, a dance class is perfect for this day since it gets people interacting and having fun.

Valentine’s Day for singles can include a get together with friends for dinner or drinks. Or you can make your own concoctions and have a dinner party with friends, including your own little gift exchange. In this case, I’d recommend lots of paper hearts, glitter and cupid’s arrows.  After all, if you’re going to have a Valentine’s-themed party, you may as well go all out!

Try something new, whether it is a type of food or activity!

Published in Volume 64, Number 19 of The Uniter (February 11, 2010)