Dear Kathleen, how can I wear hats without flattening my hair?

–Hat head

It’s inevitable that your hair will be somewhat out of shape if you choose to wear a hat. Still, there are steps to maintain your hairstyle or certain hats that you can choose to reduce the whole “hat head” look. Volumizing hair products such as mousses can help in keeping your hair full of volume and away from flattening your look. Hairspray is key in setting your style, although don’t overspray or your hat may indent your hair more-so since your hat adjusts to the shape of your head. Also, be sure your hat isn’t worn too tightly as this will only compress your hair and in turn flatten your hair. Try on different types of hats next time you’re out shopping. There are many styles out there and you may find one that better suits your look.

Dear Kathleen, how do I tie a tie?

–Tangled in Knots

The age-old question is bound to arise especially now that the holiday season is nearing; inevitably, various events call for a suit and tie. But instead of attempting to describe the steps, I came across a great website which not only gives you instructions, but has a video tutorial and diagrams to help as well: www.tie-a-tie.net.
When looking for a tie, keep in mind the colour, versatility, fabric and jacket you are wearing it with. The selection of ties today are quite vast and can range from solid to patterned designs, skinny styles, to silk and even wool. It’s best to give them a try with a variety of suits and outfits.

Dear Kathleen, fanny packs: Are they a no or a go?

–Stuck in the ‘80s

This one can be a touchy subject! In my opinion, the typical fanny packs we saw in the ‘80s and early ‘90s are a fun item to wear. I mean, when you think about it, it’s a hassle-free way to carry goods without having to worry about a purse. It’s not my personal style, but I say if you feel comfortable sporting this look, go for it! This is my take on fashion in general: if you like it, then who cares if it’s the latest thing on the runways. The way each individual chooses to express their own unique sense of style is what makes fashion exciting. There are other forms of the fanny pack, created in a slightly different style. Leather, suede, snakeskin or styled fanny packs adorned with buckles, chains and belts are alternative styles of the infamous fanny pack.

Dear Kathleen, can I wear flat boots or shoes to formal events?

–A New Low

Typically, heels are your best bet. They not only create a fancier look but make you stand straighter and add that extra boost (literally!). If for some reason heels are not your thing or you are heading to an event minus the heels, there are ways to pull off this look. Footwear which is made out of durable, well-made material, such as leather, naturally gives off a look with an edge, so try to stick with those styles. A tall, flat leather boot can definitely add some extra flair – especially an over the knee style. If you are wearing shoes in the form of a ballerina flat, try a pointy toe as opposed to a rounded toe. It will elongate the leg while at the same time adding a formal touch.

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Published in Volume 64, Number 13 of The Uniter (November 26, 2009)